For starters, our dear Mhana has posed some dewzies.
For the holidays, how much time do I HAVE to spend with my husband's family? Is One hour on Thanksgiving enough to balence spending Christmas and New Years with Mine?Seriously are your concerns short or long terms? Just depends on how bad you want to be able to boss him. Spend one w/ them now so you can spend all with your's later! Of course YOUR fam is most important but what's nice about spending time with HIS is that then you can spend the rest of your life pouting over pics from that holliday and saying you ALWAYS spend time with his fam and NEVER do anything with your's so then you can get your way w/o tons of effort. Tad sneaky yet way genious.
Also, I don't have any decorations. Is it super hip to have all the new ones so everyone knows I'm not lame and reusing old out of style stuff or do I need to buy stuff that LOOKS vintage slash anteak so I seem like I've been married FoREveR and we have tons of traditions and stuff?
What the crud? You don't have any decorations? Are you a BOY? Puuuuke! WOOD BLOCK LETTERS FOR EVERYTHING! if you seriously don't have anything, now is not the time to be picky. New ones from Tai Pan or old looking ones from etsy, whatever, just make it look like some sparkly holliday damask monster puked on your PB furniture and then blog photos of your decorations from wierd angles and then start saying you have a "lifestyle' or 'design" blog and everyone will know your faithful.